Pleeeeeeeeeeeez help me!!! I just purchased a 2004 hyundai Elantra Gt hatch and I am trying to add a trailer hitch. I have everything on except I cant find the darn T bar brake light connector???? I have pulled apart half my car. I looked under the bumper , in the tail lights, my speaker and eveywhere else you could imagine. Can anybody help me find this darn connector cable.