2016 Sonata - OK, I paired and connected my and downloaded my contact list and made 1 call out - now I can't find my contact list, don't know if my phone is still connected and the manual isn't very clear (user friendly) about how to do various steps - also, do I have to reconnect manually every time I start the car or should it do that automatically? For as thick as the manual is, it's very hard to figure out what does what, where. Please Help!

OK, I got the car and the phone paired and connected - manual says they should connect at start up of the car - this doesn't seem to happen - any suggestions? I'm at my wits end - seems this process should be easier than it seems to be - don't have this problem with pairing/connecting phone to my Garmin GPS.